Monday, June 16, 2008

Focus Bridal Photoshoot

25 May 2007 - The Focus photoshoot was the first professional photo shoot that both of us had ever taken part in, and neither of us had expected that it could be so tiring.

The lead up to our photoshoot with Focus Bridal was an intensive spree of shopping lasting several weeks. While the studio took care of almost everything for the bride, the helpless groom had to make sure that his shirt, shoes, and tie matched the bride’s outfit.

We arrived bright and early in the morning of 25th May 2007 with our accessories, shirts and shoes. Phebe’s mum even helped her to create some nail art the previous night. We took turns to sit still at the dressing table while the makeup artist applied liberal amounts of powder and hair spray on us. It was also the first time in my life wearing makeup, and I was not really keen to repeat the experience any time soon.

Our photographer was Steward, and we started off with the indoor photography. At first, we were a little worried that we would not know how to pose, but Steward kept giving us prompts on how exactly we should stand/sit/place our arms/legs.

The outdoor portion of the shoot was done at Changi where we braved mosquito-infested shrubbery and Phebe had to climb up and down slopes in her heels. In the evening, we headed to Boat Quay to continue the second part of the outdoor shoot.

It was 9pm by the time we finally returned to the studio. Back home, it took Phebe 3 rounds of washing just to remove the make-up on her face! I wonder if celebrities also wash their faces 3 times every day. We were extremely tired and just glad that the photo shoot was finally completed.

- Melvin


The photo shoot is finally over, boy it's so tiring! The night before, I went home dutifully after work so that Mdm Yik aka Mum could do nail art for me. Anyway, we reached Focus Bridal at 9am only to find that the coordinator was late and the MUA (make-up artiste) was not around! Plus, the shop was empty and the phone kept ringing. I can’t believe whoever it was who came earlier was so daring as to leave the door unlocked when he/she stepped out! We waited for 1 hour and still no one came. Super pissed. In the end, we decided to pick up the phone which was ringing almost every 5 mins and found ourselves speaking to the MUA, who said that she reached an hour ago but there was no one in the shop, so she went for breakfast! Manz…. I can’t believe the staff are so irresponsible! Wasted our time coming down so early in the morning still nevermind, but this delay meant we have 1 hour less for our outdoor shoot! Super pissed!!

Anyway, the MUA came up soon after and quickly got down to work. She started with doing my make-up. The fake eyelashes were so prickly...but I guess beauty comes with a price, lol. It was quite funny seeing Meowvin with a powdered face though, and I couldn't help resist taking a photo!




I was pretty tempted to choose the Japanese outfit for the traditional costume as Mdm Yik suggested dressing up in the Japanese kimono since we will be going to Japan for our ROM honeymoon. However, the silly kimono made me look twice my original size, not to mention that the proposed tied back hairstyle would expose a greater area of my face...and thus...I ended up dressing up in this.... whatever it is called... so cartoon~!



Our photographer was Steward and he's a pretty nice chap~! It was pretty tiring changing in and out of the gowns, and having to change my hairstyle to suit each gown. By the end of the indoor shoot, I felt as though my face was going to crack from the smile that was plastered on my face!



We had wanted to take the bumboat ride at the Singapore River as it was where Meowvin proposed, but unfortunately, due to time constraint, we only took photos around the Fullerton area. Luckily we have another photo shoot from French Bridal that's to be taken next year. Guess we'll take the bumboat photos during the next photo shoot~! Steward brought us to Changi as well for our outdoor shoot. I was lazy to bring along my slippers, so I left them at Focus. MAnz... we ended up hiking among bushes and trees to snap pictures with mother nature as the background. The scenery was great...but climbing up rocks near the sea in a pair of 2.5 inch heels (thankfully it was no higher than that~!) was definitely not an easy feat! Oh, and did I mention that I came out of the forest area with 4 mossie bites?? Guess those stupid mossies must have had a great feast! Was feeling pretty warm but luckily I brought along my mini portable fan! Well prepared indeed, wahahhahaa! Unfortunately, I left my bottle of mineral water at Focus, so I ended up nearly dying of thirst! When Steward stopped his car near Lau Pa Sat later in the evening and Meowvin went to buy us drinks, manz... I never knew that ice lemon tea could taste so good!

Finally got back to the studio at 9pm and we were dog tired. Took a cab back to my place and Meowvin cooked us maggie mee while I removed my make-up... 3 full rounds of milk cleansing plus washing with facial foam just to get that thick goo off my face! Felt so good to remove all the hairpins from my head! It took 2 rounds of conditioning and shampoo-ing to get my poor hair back to its normal!

So freaking tired... I'm so glad the next photo shoot won't be anytime too soon, phew! The next time, I'll definitely bring along some insect repellant and at least 2 bottles of mineral water!


- Phebe

My ROM Gown

10 March 2007 - Went down to French Bridal to try out ROM gowns for fun. Sad to say, their collection of short-length gowns are rather limited and I only managed to find ONE piece that I thought looked reasonably ok and Meowvin said it was quite nice. Although I agreed it was nice, somehow I still don't feel it is THE ONE. Unfortunately, my Rom gown is not made-to-measure, so it's either I settle for something that is available within French, or I get a designer to customise one for me. Of course, if I were to do that, the Rom gown that is included in our package would be wasted, and French insisted that they are not able to add on additional perks such as extra photos as the Rom package was supposed to be complementary. I think they are crap.

Actually, when Arsie and I were shopping at Marina last Friday, we walked pass this bridal shop called Bridal Zone and the gown on the mannequin caught my eye. One look at it and immediately I knew that was THE ONE! It was made of full lace and sequins, with a sloping hemline from the front to the back of the gown. Sad to say though, French doesn't have anything similar. I voiced out my unhappiness, thinking that Meowvin would surely nag and tell me to just settle for something that is available, but surprisingly, he said that if I really can't find one that I like from French, we'll just get it elsewhere as long as I am happy! MAnz...to think that I had expected some nagging...what has the world come to??? Sigh, gown hunting is such a bore. I couldn't help yawning as we browsed through their whole collection of gowns earlier. Why don't they just do the customers a favour and let us browse through a catalogue instead??? That would certainly save a lot of time.

11 March 2007 – Meowvin and I went down to Marina as I wanted to show him the gown that Arsie and I saw the other day at Bridal Zone. Guess what? Haha, we went into the shop, told the lady at the counter that I wanted the gown on the mannequin and placed our deposit, no questions asked! Yay, so happy!! Come to think of it, I realised we have signed up with 3 bridal studios - French, Focus and now Bridal Zone!




Front view~


Can't zip all the way...too fat, got to start working out more!


Side view! I like the fact that behind is longer than the front!


- Phebe

Banquet at The Regent Hotel

28 Jan 2007 - May not book Fullerton Hotel for our wedding dinner afterall, cos we have found somewhere even better! Better in terms of almost everything except for the bridal suite that is not 2-storey high. Conrad is out. The Regent Hotel wins!!! Ok, 99% confirmed....remaining 1% depends on whether the ballroom, which we have not had the chance to view that night as there was a function going on, is to our liking. As Tai Tai puts it, "1 server to 1 table good, no need to fight for food", whahahahahaa! To be honest though, Meowvin and I both thought the exterior of the hotel doesn't look very nice but when we went in...we were like "wow"! So different from the outside! Really very luxurious and being a 5-star hotel, of cos, the service was great! Lalalalalala, hope this gets settled soon, cos we are totally sick of viewing hotel ballrooms. To date, I’ve already lost count of how many hotels we have been to!

11 March 2007 – Went to Regent Hotel and parted with a $5K deposit for the wedding banquet. Yay! One more thing settled!!! Very satisfied with Regent's package! Went to celebrate our 28th Month Anniversary after that at The Heeren before heading home.


- Phebe

Focus Bridal

27 Jan 2007 - The package with Focus Bridal was mostly unplanned. We were shopping at IMM when we decided to drop by Focus Bridal just to check how their package compared to ours from French Bridal. We ended up spending 1 hour in the shop and footing a $400 deposit for another bridal package! We figured that since we would most likely end up ordering extra photos for the French Bridal package, why not use that money to engage another bridal studio? In this way, we lessen the risk of ending up with photos that we don’t like.


- Melvin

ROM Photography & Videography

26 Dec 2006 – Read the online forums and decided to hire this photographer named Desmond Ho for our ROM as there were numerous good comments about him. Haha, the Internet is such a wonderful invention!

10 March 2007 –
Meowvin and I decided to hire a videographer for our ROM and had been searching online for some time, reading the forums and viewing online portfolios. If there is one very different trait about us, it’s the way we do things. I prefer to settle things as quickly as possible, with quality being the top priority and price being secondary. Meowvin is the opposite. Anyway, very quickly, I managed to find a vendor that I like and thankfully managed to convince Meowvin to go for it. We met up with DreamzCoffee that day to sign the contract.. We had wanted to sign up with Rhema Media initially as it gave us a pretty good deal, but well, I still prefer DreamzCoffee's works. Anyway, I'm glad we finally got it settled! The whole package costed $150 more than Rhema Media's, but it's still reasonable. 4 services in total - ROM videography, Actual day videography, Video express highlights and cartoon animation. Good deal! Now we are only left with hiring a photographer for our customary wedding, yay!


- Phebe

Our ROM Venue

12 May 2006 – After spending so many months searching for the perfect ROM venue, Meowvin and I decided to settle on Carlton Hotel. We were planning to hold our ROM in the evening by the poolside, followed by a buffet dinner for our guests. We had viewed more than 15 venues for our ROM and were glad that Carlton had what we were looking for. But somehow, just somehow, I still didn’t have that “This is THE ONE!!!” feeling, which made me go online again to search for more venues. I suggested to Meowvin holding our ROM at the zoo and keyed in http://www.mandai.com.sg/ into the address bar on the IE screen. I was merely trying my luck as I thought that was the zoo’s website. Surprisingly, the website displayed pictures of a beautiful garden filled with colourful orchids! Lovely! It didn’t occur to me that there weren’t any images of animals on the website, haha!

Later in the day, I wanted to show Meowvin the place that I have found and typed into the search bar “singapore zoo”. To my surprise, the website looked totally different! I then realised that the zoo’s website was http://www.zoo.com.sg/ and not http://www.mandai.com.sg/! The website that I got into initially was Mandai Orchid Garden!

We made an appointment with Mandai Orchid Garden and went down to view the place. It was perfect!!!! We will be holding our ROM there!!!! Finally found THE VENUE!!! But...got to wait till Yanna email us the final pricing since we said we didn't want the alcohol and 3-tiered wedding cake that were included in the package. 90% we will be holding our ROM there! Yes... the balance 10% is dependent on the final price. Wahahahaha so happy!!! So lucky too, to think that we actually stumbled upon this place by chance!! The last is still the best, haha!

18 May 2006 - So happy!! Meowvin and I have decided on The Venue and we will be going down to Mandai Orchid Garden this coming Saturday to sign the contract!!!! So happy cos they managed to customize the package to suit our needs and I managed to convince them to remove all taxes (16%), haha!

20 May 2006 – Meowvin and I have booked our Rom Solemnization venue!! Ok, its a lil early to book, but still, it is a very hot pick date and being typical Singaporeans, we have no choice but to be very kiasu, wahahahahhaa! Went down to Mandai Orchid Garden today early in the morning at 10am to sign the contract. Here are a few pics...




The Gazebo, where the reception table is and pre-cocktail.


Mokara Hall, where the Solemnization takes place and Hi-tea reception. Those black sticks are actually garden torches which will be decorated with streamers to create an aisle.

View of The Gazebo leading to Mokara Hall

The orchid garden

Mini Japanese flowers....

Yay we have finally booked our ROM venue!!!

- Phebe

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Our Wedding Bands

4 March 2006 – Meowvin and I went for an early lunch at Bugis then went around the jewellery shops looking at wedding bands. Oh manz, I really like Soo Kee's Jac Laurant design! It has a whole string of diamond studs all around it! Not cheap... but I think it is reasonable. Decided to look around further before deciding cos Meowvin was thinking of designing our own rings. Didn't know guys can be so fussy...

5 March 2006 - Went ring hunting again and I still think the Jac Laurant design is THE ONE! But well...it made sense that the more diamonds a wedding band has, the probability of the diamonds dropping off in the long run is higher since I will be wearing it daily. Should I think in terms of practicality and buy a simple band with just one diamond or buy the eternity ring which I fell in love with??? Oh manz I can't make up my mind!!! Of cos, the former is simple and durable while the later is elaborate. I think the eternity ring looks nicer on me but Meowvin thinks the single diamond ring is nicer. Manz! Haiz, I think one fine day must get my gfs to go ring hunting with me....guys' taste can never be trusted... when it comes to diamonds! Meowvin also can't make up his mind between the two tone ring or the special cut ring. MAnz...no wonder people say they can take up to 6 months just sourcing for wedding bands! Think we'll check out Aspial during the weekend!

12 March 2006 - Went to Wisma to look at wedding bands at Lee Hwa and Goldheart but still felt that Soo Kee is the best, so we went back to Soo Kee. I still prefer the Jac Laurant ring!! Or should I say, that is The One! Meowvin didn't like the matching ring though (I also don't think it looks matching, lol) and Fanny (the staff) brought out a range of male wedding bands that they kept inside (not for display) to help us find one that can match my beloved ring. Liew, went to so many Soo Kee outlets yet only at this branch the staff was so good as to take out designs that were not on displays to help us mix and match! And guess what?? I am glad she did, cos Meowvin also found The One!!! It is kinda stylish and has a very "clear cut" modern look. Like the Jac Laurant, it also has a shiny stripe, only it is right at the front while the rest is matt finishing. The Jac Laurant's shiny stripe is in the center where all the 20 diamond studs are. It was 9.30pm. Meowvin still wanted to rush to SK at Lucky Plaza to make sure this is nicer than the other one he eyed earlier on. Fanny made a call to SK to tell them not to close shop first haha. We made a mad rush down, decided Soo Kee’s is nicer and went back to Soo Kee...all in a matter of 15 mins, haha! Manz, they really should put this as the matching ring for my Jac Laurant instead of the current one on display! This is so much more style and "man"!

Description of my Jac Laurant ring: Comfort fit series. Matt finishing. 18k white gold. Shiny stripe in the center. On the stripe are 5 diamonds in a row, then a small interval gap, then another 5 diamonds....so on, total 20 diamonds. Didn't buy the full eternity ring (no intervals all diamonds) cos I think this one looks nicer somehow, haha. I love this so much!

Description of Meowvin’s ring: Comfort fit series. White gold with matt finishing. At the front it has a thin shiny stripe all around, making it look like a "2 tone" ring.

So we bought our wedding bands!! Collection date on 11th May, our 1.5 year anniversary! So happy, found a pair that both of us like so much! Meowvin asked me to try on the Brilliant Rose ring and asked if I mind if the diamond is smaller (0.3 carat I think)? No way manz, I want a 0.45 carat ring at least!!

22 April 2006 – Meowvin and I went to Wisma to collect our wedding bands but ended up sending them for engraving instead.

1 May 2006 – We finally collected our wedding bands!





-Phebe